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Paalding, Neeltje Eleanor[1, 2, 3, 4]
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Name Paalding, Neeltje Eleanor - Her father, Abraham, calls her "Nelly Palding" in his Will made out 1 day before his death.
Her older sisters, Caharine, Maria and Rebecca are refered to by their married names.
Nelly is unmarried at this time.
Nickname Nelly Birth Abt 1743 New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
[5] Baptism 1 Jan 1744 New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
[4, 6, 7, 8] Gender Female Death 1837 New York, USA
Person ID I5590 Theisen & Allied Families Last Modified 27 Oct 2025
Father Palding, Abraham, b. Abt May 1697 d. 15 Sep 1762, New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
(Age 65 years) Mother Cosijn, Marytje, b. Abt 1700 d. 5 Apr 1768, New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
(Age 68 years) Marriage 25 Mar 1720 New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
[9, 10, 11] Family ID F1406 Group Sheet | Family Chart
Family Wilson, Robert III, b. Abt 1727, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. Aft 1798, Glen Cove, Queens County, New York, United States
(Age > 72 years) Marriage 22 Nov 1763 New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
[12, 13] - 19 Nov 1763 - Ingeteek (Signed Up) - Date of registration.
22 Nov 1763 - Getrouwt (Married) - Date of marriage.
Children 1. Wilson, Andrew, b. 27 Sep 1766, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. Bef 1776 (Age < 9 years)2. Wilson, Zippard, b. 26 May 1767, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. Abt 1853, Seaford
(Age 85 years)3. Wilson, William, b. 29 Aug 1769, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. Yes, date unknown4. Wilson, Sarah, b. 15 Dec 1770, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. Yes, date unknown5. Wilson, Hannah, b. 29 Aug 1773, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. Abt 1877, New York City, New York County, New York, United States
(Age 103 years)6. Wilson, Robert Jr., b. 17 Feb 1775, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. 1835, Crawfordsville, Montgomery County, Indiana, United States
(Age 59 years)7. Wilson, Charles, b. 24 Nov 1776, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America
d. Oyster Bay, Long Island, New York, United States 
8. Wilson, Jane, b. 19 May 1779, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States
d. 3 Sep 1834 (Age 55 years)9. Wilson, Jacob, b. 29 May 1781, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States
d. Aft 1801 (Age > 21 years)10. Wilson, James, b. 19 Sep 1783, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States
d. Long Island, New York, United States 
11. Wilson, Cpl Benjamin W., b. 20 Jul 1788, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States
d. 9 Feb 1846, Oyster Bay, Queens County, New York, United States
(Age 57 years)Family ID F113 Group Sheet | Family Chart Last Modified 20 Mar 2026
- Her father, Abraham, calls her "Nelly Palding" in his Will made out 1 day before his death.
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Notes - Nellie (as found in her father's will, and before she was married) a diminutive of Eleanor.
Neeltje -> Nelly -> Eleanor
https://www.behindthename.com/name/eleanor/tree
Other Name Spellings:
Eleanor Poldang (first son Andrew's church record for birth and baptism).
Eleanor Baulding (second son William's church record for birth and baptism).
Elinor Paulding - "The history of the Treman, Tremaine, Truman family in America"
Paalding - Father Joseph name spelled in Catharine's baptismal record https://www.familysearch.org/library/books/viewer/519728/?offset=0#page=113&viewer=picture&o=search&n=0&q=pawling
286405. Catharine. Sept. Sept. 30, 1744.
https://archive.org/details/historyoftremant02trem/page/n115/mode/2up?q=Paulding
Susanna Paling? Bapt 30 Aug 1741 , same parents
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSS4-B3W7-4?i=1302&cat=123889
and
https://www.newyorkfamilyhistory.org/online-records/nygb-record/566-118/27 Pg. 71
Pawling
Paelden
Pauling
Palingh
Paulding
Paeldin
Pauldin
Pauwldin
Pauldinck
Palding
Pauwldingh
https://www.google.com/books/edition/Literary_Life_of_James_K_Paulding/d7ERAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=Joost
- Nellie (as found in her father's will, and before she was married) a diminutive of Eleanor.
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Sources - [S3] Geni World Family Tree, https://www.myheritage.com/research/record-40000-353428916/eleanor-paulding-in-geni-world-family-tree.
Eleanor Paulding
Gender: Female
Husband: <a>Robert Wilson, Jr</a>
Children: <a>Andrew Wilson</a>, <a>William Wilson</a>, <a>Robert Wilson, III</a>, <a>Charles Wilson</a>, <a>Jacob Wilson</a>, <a>James Wilson</a>, <a>Zebulon Wilson</a>, <a>Benjamin Wilson</a>, <a>Nicholas Wilson</a> - [S1] FamilySearch Family Tree, https://www.myheritage.com/research/record-40001-943606300/eleanor-wilson-born-paulding-in-familysearch-family-tree.
Eleanor Wilson (born Paulding)
Birth name: Eleanor Paulding
Gender: Female
Birth: 1743 - Tarrytown, New York, United States
Marriage: Circa 1765 - Oyster Bay, Nassau, New York, United States
Death: 1837 - New York, United States
There seems to be an issue with this person's relatives. View this person on FamilySearch to see this information. - [S1] FamilySearch Family Tree, https://www.myheritage.com/research/record-40001-943606300/eleanor-wilson-born-paulding-in-familysearch-family-tree.
Eleanor Wilson (born Paulding)<br>Birth name: Eleanor Paulding<br>Gender: Female<br>Birth: 1743 - Tarrytown, New York, United States<br>Marriage: Circa 1765 - Oyster Bay, Nassau, New York, United States<br>Death: 1837 - New York, United States<br>There seems to be an issue with this person's relatives. View this person on FamilySearch to see this information. - [S682] Holland Society of New York, https://hsny.localarchives.net/?a=d&d=A1741-RG10-SG04-S03-Bk-33-NY-Vol-I.1.35 Pg. 27.
- [S464] Book -, https://www.google.com/books/edition/The_History_of_the_Treman_Tremaine_Truma/PThZAAAAMAAJ Pg. 838, 841.
- [S368] The New York Genealogical and Biographical Society, https://www.newyorkfamilyhistory.org/online-records/new-york-county-religious-records/535-015/109 Pg. 106.
- [S368] The New York Genealogical and Biographical Society, https://www.newyorkfamilyhistory.org/online-records/nygb-record/566-120/15.
- [S283] AmericanAncestors.org, https://www.americanancestors.org/DB472/i/12833/106/144481304 Pg. 106 (image 106).
- [S464] Book -, https://archive.org/details/historyoftremant02trem/page/n115/mode/2up?q=Paulding Pg. 1166m.
- [S368] The New York Genealogical and Biographical Society, https://www.newyorkfamilyhistory.org/online-records/new-york-county-religious-records/535-014/1.
- [S677] WieWasWie, https://www.wiewaswie.nl/en/detail/20997848.
- [S663] Marriages in the Reformed Dutch Church (New Amsterdam & New York), 1639-1801, Pg. 214.
- [S296] Ancestry.com, https://www.ancestry.com/discoveryui-content/view/2580855:6961.
U.S., Dutch Reformed Church Records in Selected States, 1639-1989
New York - Manhattan - Collegiate Church, Ecclesiastical Records, Baptisms, Members, Marriages, 1639-1774, Pg. 774
Source Information
Ancestry.com. U.S., Dutch Reformed Church Records in Selected States, 1639-1989 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2014.
Original data:
Dutch Reformed Church Records from New York and New Jersey. Holland Society of New York, New York, New York.
Dutch Reformed Church Records from New Jersey. The Archives of the Reformed Church in America, New Brunswick, New Jersey.
- [S3] Geni World Family Tree, https://www.myheritage.com/research/record-40000-353428916/eleanor-paulding-in-geni-world-family-tree.
