Paalding, Neeltje Eleanor^{[1, 2, 3, 4]}

Abt 1743 - 1837  (94 years)

• Name	Paalding, Neeltje Eleanor
  	Her father, Abraham, calls her "Nelly Palding" in his Will made out 1 day before his death. Her older sisters, Caharine, Maria and Rebecca are refered to by their married names. Nelly is unmarried at this time.
  Nickname	Nelly
  Birth	Abt 1743	New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America   [5]
  Baptism	1 Jan 1744	New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America   [4, 6, 7, 8]
  	https://www.familysearch.org/library/books/viewer/519728/?offset=0#page=107&viewer=picture&o=search&n=0&q=pawling
  Gender	Female
  Death	1837	New York, USA
  Person ID	I5590	Theisen & Allied Families
  Last Modified	27 Oct 2025

  
  

  Father	Palding, Abraham,   b. Abt May 1697   d. 15 Sep 1762, New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America (Age 65 years)
  Mother	Cosijn, Marytje,   b. Abt 1700   d. 5 Apr 1768, New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America (Age 68 years)
  Marriage	25 Mar 1720	New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America   [9, 10, 11]
  Family ID	F1406	Group Sheet  |  Family Chart

  
  

  Family	Wilson, Robert III,   b. Abt 1727, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. Aft 1798, Glen Cove, Queens County, New York, United States (Age > 72 years)
  Marriage	22 Nov 1763	New York City, Colony of New York, British Colonial America   [12, 13]
  	19 Nov 1763 - Ingeteek (Signed Up) - Date of registration. 22 Nov 1763 - Getrouwt (Married) - Date of marriage.
  Children	1. Wilson, Andrew,   b. 27 Sep 1766, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. Bef 1776 (Age < 9 years)   2. Wilson, Zippard,   b. 26 May 1767, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. Abt 1853, Seaford (Age 85 years)   3. Wilson, William,   b. 29 Aug 1769, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. Yes, date unknown   4. Wilson, Sarah,   b. 15 Dec 1770, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. Yes, date unknown   5. Wilson, Hannah,   b. 29 Aug 1773, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. Abt 1877, New York City, New York County, New York, United States (Age 103 years)   6. Wilson, Robert Jr.,   b. 17 Feb 1775, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. 1835, Crawfordsville, Montgomery County, Indiana, United States (Age 59 years)   7. Wilson, Charles,   b. 24 Nov 1776, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk, Colony of New York, British Colonial America d. Oyster Bay, Long Island, New York, United States   8. Wilson, Jane,   b. 19 May 1779, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States d. 3 Sep 1834 (Age 55 years)   9. Wilson, Jacob,   b. 29 May 1781, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States d. Aft 1801 (Age > 21 years)   10. Wilson, James,   b. 19 Sep 1783, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States d. Long Island, New York, United States   11. Wilson, Cpl Benjamin W.,   b. 20 Jul 1788, Cold Spring Harbor, Suffolk County, New York, United States d. 9 Feb 1846, Oyster Bay, Queens County, New York, United States (Age 57 years)
  Family ID	F113	Group Sheet  |  Family Chart
  Last Modified	20 Mar 2026

  
  

• Notes

  Nellie (as found in her father's will, and before she was married) a diminutive of Eleanor. Neeltje -> Nelly -> Eleanor https://www.behindthename.com/name/eleanor/tree Other Name Spellings: Eleanor Poldang (first son Andrew's church record for birth and baptism). Eleanor Baulding (second son William's church record for birth and baptism). Elinor Paulding - "The history of the Treman, Tremaine, Truman family in America" Paalding - Father Joseph name spelled in Catharine's baptismal record https://www.familysearch.org/library/books/viewer/519728/?offset=0#page=113&viewer=picture&o=search&n=0&q=pawling 286405. Catharine. Sept. Sept. 30, 1744. https://archive.org/details/historyoftremant02trem/page/n115/mode/2up?q=Paulding Susanna Paling? Bapt 30 Aug 1741 , same parents https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:3Q9M-CSS4-B3W7-4?i=1302&cat=123889 and https://www.newyorkfamilyhistory.org/online-records/nygb-record/566-118/27 Pg. 71 Pawling Paelden Pauling Palingh Paulding Paeldin Pauldin Pauwldin Pauldinck Palding Pauwldingh https://www.google.com/books/edition/Literary_Life_of_James_K_Paulding/d7ERAAAAYAAJ?hl=en&gbpv=1&bsq=Joost

  
  

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